Reply To: What is ‘Too Nice’?

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Ann L. Lowenstein
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You’re running up against the fantasy of ‘taming the bad boy.’ You’re not a challenge because you don’t treat women like disposable accessories. I had a roommate who was approximately the biggest shit toward women I’ve ever seen, and he always had at least three he was ‘dating exclusively’ at any given time. Here’s a suggestion: try dating women a little older than you. The whole ‘older woman/younger man’ taboo has crumbled to some extent in recent years, and generally by the time a woman is in her mid-30s, she’s gotten past her need to ‘tame’ anyone, and is looking for an actual adult with whom to spend some quality time. One caveat: If the older woman in question dresses like a high-schooler or goes by a childish nickname ending in ‘I’, and further, dots that ‘I’ with a heart or a smiley-face, run screaming! (Yes, I have met a few of these sad cows).

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Name : Ann L. Lowenstein, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Animist, Age : 37, City : K.C., State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : Administrative Assistant, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,