Reply To: Caucasian women’s comfort levels with Asian men

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Janna
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I can’t speak for all females, but I do not find Asian men sexually attractive and can understand the ‘recoil’ factor. Why don’t I find them attractive? I don’t know if I can answer that thoroughly, but I will try:

Many women, including myself, are not generally attracted to men who are shorter than themselves, or less imposing physically, and many Asian men are short and slender. Is it because I was raised with the image of masculine white men in all the romantic leads? I am sure that has a lot to do with it. I am 32, and there were no romantic Asian male leads in any movie or TV show I can recall growing up. The only Asians on TV that I can recall growing up were in Barney Miller and M*A*S*H. Unfortunately, as I was raised in the white enclave of Marin County, the only time I encountered Asian men growing up was in San Francisco’s Chinatown, and I have to say that Chinese men of a certain age have an herbal odor that is really unpleasant. This does not boost sex appeal. It is only as an adult that I have noticed Asian actors in the media playing romantic leads. Brandon Lee was handsome, and Chow Yun Fat is very attractive, and still, I don’t have the same reaction that I do to Brad Pitt or George Clooney. Then, of course, there are those reports that Asian men are not well-endowed. For about four years, I worked as a stripper. We had many Japanese businessmen as customers. When you lapdance, or do private shows behind glass while the customer ‘takes matters into his own hands’ so to speak, you cannot help but either feel or see his ‘dimensions.’ And without exception, they were, in fact, not well-endowed. Sometimes so not-endowed that we felt sorry for them. In Japan, they have different sizes of condoms, and the smallest would literally fit snugly over your index finger. They make them this size because some guys need them. The ‘myth’ of the black man is that they are animalistically sexual, massively endowed sexual beings. The ‘myth’ of the Asian man is that they all majored in business and have pocket protectors. So these are some reasons, perhaps, why some women are uncomfortable with Asian men expressing their sexuality. The fact is that some or many Caucasian women don’t have a positive impression of Asian men’s sexuality.

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Name : Janna, Gender : F, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 32, City : San Rafael, State : CA, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,