July 12, 2004 at 12:00 am #19669
Mark
Participant
The next time this comes up, tell her that you think she should pursue an enlargement because it will clearly enhance her self-confidence. As this is something you both want, you should work toward it and pay for it together. However, I think this course of action is more appropriate once a long-term committment is made, so nobody feels used over this issue if there is a break-up.