Reply To: Boys posing as men

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Ann L. Lowenstein
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They act like children because they have been allowed to and encouraged to. American culture’s youth worship manifests in men as emotional infantilization. These ‘men’ never matured much past early adolescense, and probably never will. They aren’t looking for a life-partner or an equal, they are looking for a combination surrogate mommy and fantasy slut, and when a real live girl-person proves to be neither, they react to the disappointment with a tantrum, just like a child would. Disappointing, I know, but just imagine how I feel – ‘men’ in MY age range are behaving exactly the same way, and they’ve had a decade or more longer to grow the hell up! Don’t give up, there are a few actual adults out there who aren’t already married or gay, you just have to keep looking. Or at least that’s what I tell myself.

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Name : Ann L. Lowenstein, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Animist, Age : 37, City : K.C., State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : Administrative Assistant, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,