[Cocoa31977]

I admire you for your commitment to abstinence and respect you for your support of chastity. There aren't too many teens like us. Teens don't cherish virginity for numerous reasons: first, sex is highly overrated and emphasized. When you hear your best friend 'Michelle' talk openly about her sexual affairs, about having a huge ding-a-ling inside her and how orgasmic it felt, you can't help but feel you're missing out on lots of the excitement. On top of that, especially among girls, bisexuality and lesbianism appear to be the norm. So when you see flicks such as 'Girls Gone Wild,' the message is you can't know who you are unless you're acting like a flea-bitten, whorish bitch. In addition to that, teens aren't encouraged to value the sacredness of sex. Look at the amount of schools handing out condoms, or Planned Parenthood allowing underage girls to abort their children without having their parents' consent. The message is clearly stating that even adults don't believe we are not hormone-raging animals. Add to that the fact that abstinence isn't enough motivation because you can 'always kill your unborn child.'

Females, whether women or girls, are always made to feel as if there is something deathly wrong with them if they don't have a romantic male figure in their life 24/7. It is always emphasized that 'you have to please your man' and 'stand by your man', as if the relationship revolves around him and you don't count. It's no wonder they feel pressured to perform and lack the assertiveness to say no. It is based on lack of confidence and a feeling that you don't have anything to offer the relationship or him, such as your goals, dreams, kind heart, personality and intellect. They feel guys don't care about that. The only thing they feel they can offer is a cheap piece of a**, t*ts, and p***y.

I wish females would feel valuable enough to not bend over backward so much for the male species. They need to feel that they're still OK and that their purpose on earth is not to be mens' playtoys. We have a divine purpose.

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Name : Cocoa31977, City : Tampa, State : FL Country : United States,