[Ralph]

Short answer: no. Long answer: Forget about the fact that it's porn for a second. People in a relationship should never try to change the other person in any way. That's a recipe for disaster. If this is a trait that you know about him, you have to deal with it or leave the relationship. There are many other things that women can, for the most part, accept. Like watching football all day or the occasional fart. Yet they feel porn should be treated differently. And, as the previous responder pointed out, it's because women feel that it has something to do with the relationship or the sex. Let me be very clear, it doesn't. You are not being compared to the girls in the films. Sex is a part of life. Porn is a diversion from life. It's that simple. I have yet to have a guy friend that does not partake in some form of pornography. Some have full families, some are married, some single, some dating. But we all agree, it's just another piece of entertainment. It doesn't mean anything. Given all that, there's no reason to stop. There's only two exceptions I will make: if you're not into it, he should not expose you to it in any way. And, if it gets to be an obsession where it is actually interefering with the sexual relationship. Other than that, bring it on!

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[Ralph]

There's absolutely no way anyone can answer that question without actually knowing you. But, if I had to guess, I would say it's because you aren't presenting enough of a challenge. Women always say that the most important thing in a man is confidence. I believe it goes both ways. It's a very strange thing, but at the start or a relationship, it seems that both people are looking for people that don't NEED them, just want them. If you appear too needy, it's a problem. Like I said, this is obviously a complete guess. And, if I am at all close to the truth, I hope my comments don't seem harsh, they are not intended that way.

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[Ralph]

We're here. That's not the issue. The issue is that we are not the ones in the bars hitting on you, partying til 5am. We're not the muscle-bound guys. We're not the metrosexuals. Woman ALWAYS say that they are looking for traits like sense of humor and the things you mentioned. But when push-comes-to-shove if I am at the same party as the bad boy player, I will not get a second glance. You can't find us because you are looking right through us.

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[Ralph]

As a man, I cannot provide an answer, but I can provide this question: What can we do to help? You need to tell us what gets you off.

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