[Megan H.]

I'm very happy to hear there are some out there who are doing it right. I lost my virginity at a very early age. I had been sexually abused as a young child and already considered my virginity a lost cause when I willingly engaged in sexual activity. I think most are so eager to lose our virginity because this world is focused on sex. It's everywhere you look, on every commercial, every TV show, every advertisement. They feel out of the loop. I'll bet if you polled America, you'd find a good 80 percent would regret having given away their virginity when they did, and to whom. I commend you entirely for saving yourself. Your husband will consider it the best gift, and it will ward off all sorts of problems that arise with previous sexual experience. Nowadays it seems if you don't have an STD, you're a prize. Stick to your morals and don't put yourself in any situation that could compromise your decision-making abilities. I wish I was as smart as you are at that age.

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Name : Megan H., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 25, City : Niles, State : MI Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[Megan H.]

I don't think that at the age of 16, being attracted to 13 or 14 yr. olds defines you as being a pedophile. Many men prefer smaller breasts and this does not infer that they are attracted to children. I would, however, make a conscious effort to consider girls your own age. The teen years are so packed with changes that even a year's difference is considerable. A girl of 14 is at a completely different maturity stage than a girl of 16. Remind yourself it's okay to prefer smaller breasts, but breast size isn't necessarily correlated to age. If you view age as the link, you're setting yourself up for issues down the line..for example, it is NOT acceptable to be attracted to 14 yr. olds at the age of 19. Consciously direct your attractions while you're young and impressionable.

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Name : Megan H., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 25, City : Niles, State : MI Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[Megan H.]

I also had a child at your age and was astounded at the change in my body. Immediately following my re-coop period I started doing step-aerobics and weight training. If you want your figure back badly enough, you'll work for it. I understand how difficult it is with a new child, how exhausted and defeated you might feel, but exercise will definately help this. And, as you begin to see improvement, your drive will increase. Little things you can also do that make a huge difference: DRINK TONS of water, take vitamins, lotion your skin daily, cut out soft drinks, do tiny bits of exercise here n there...i.e. when you're watching tv, do sit-ups, lift up on your toes in the grocery line to work your calves... As for the stretch marks, those will diminish over time. I also have a problem with them- I used cocoa butter up until my son's birth to no avail. Besides getting them surgically removed, there's not much you can do about them. Just concentrate on the things you can change, like your muscle tone, and the stretch marks won't be your focal concern. Good luck!

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Name : Megan H., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 25, City : Niles, State : MI Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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