Dare To Ask Talk And News About Our Differences By PHILLIP MILANO
Question
Why don’t Catholics understand why they do and say all the rituals they do and say?
Robin, Bastrop, Texas
Replies
Most likely the Catholics you’ve talked to didn’t pay attention in Catechism class (yes, we have slackers, too, just like every other religion). Or they only went to church to please their parents, and stopped once puberty hit – thereby becoming part of the infamous “lapsed Catholics.” I rarely go to church. However, I actually listened in class, and therefore know why we do the things we do.
Sabie, 23, female, Greenville, S.C.
I have gone to Catholic school almost my whole life, and they never really get into the good stuff. I just have to learn that on my own. I suppose they do not teach it because they think it’s over our heads.
George, 15, Catholic, Jacksonville
Catholic teachers never really have explained the rituals’ meaning to us. Fortunately, the Mass is fairly self-explanatory, and people only need to sit through a few services to understand what’s going on. The most important ritual is the Eucharist (bread and wine), which comes directly from the gospels. The confession ritual is a way to beg forgiveness and purify the heart. Most of the rest have come out of 2,000-odd years of history and serve to reinforce the community bonds so important to the Church.
Ange, 20, Catholic female, Australia
Expert says
Bob Perron’s 3-year-old daughter knew just what to do with her pew’s kneeler during Mass: ride on that padded leather sucker like it was the pony she never had.
But she also taught Perron, a self-described “Catholic edu-tainer” who speaks to more than 60,000 youths a year nationwide about Catholicism, a valuable lesson about rituals.
During one service, a Eucharistic minister was placing unused consecrated hosts into a gold box near the altar, prompting Perron to tell his daughter, “Look, they’re getting ready to put Jesus in the tabernacle.”
She yelled: “They’re going to put Jesus in a box? Don’t worry Jesus, I’ll get you out of there!”
The point, said Perron, whose Iowa-based “Stooge 4 Christ” Ministries uses humor as a teaching tool, wasn’t that his daughter was being disrespectful, but that she had a relationship with Christ and believed he was real – a friend.
“We Catholics can sometimes miss the miracle . . . that Jesus is really present during the Eucharist. My daughter taught me the importance of having a childlike faith.”
And while not all Catholics are up to speed on all rituals, Perron says surveys and his own work show that more and more Catholic youths yearn to discover these practices’ origins and importance.
“Sometimes from the outside these rituals can kind of look funny, but . . . they express a deep sense of faith that has been passed from one generation to the next.”