Nicky

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  • in reply to: Lesbian displays of affection #18329

    Nicky
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    I have seen many straights mimic sex acts while dancing - pelvic thrusts, and climbing all over each other. And on the topic of blatant straightness, now we have to endure the commercial telling us all how "We don't want to get pregnant now, so I'm on the pill." Beer commercials tell us how sexy straights are when they drink a certain beer, car commercials that you have to drive a certain car. Straight sex is everywhere. At work, it's "my wife this, my husband that." Someone at work wants to see the photos of my last cruise, but I'm reluctant to show them because it was with a gay cruise line. But straight people have no reservations about shoving wedding pictures and baby pictures in our faces.

    One of my gay co-workers was just diagnosed with rectal cancer. The comments about how he has AIDS or that someone planted a cancer gene up his butt are disgusting. No one makes nasty comments like that when a straight person is diagnosed with rectal cancer, and they do have rectal sex! Try putting yourself in our shoes once. It's not fun.

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    Name : Nicky, Gender : F, Religion : Pagan, Age : 46, City : Ft Worth, State : TX Country : United States, 
    in reply to: Talking about women #47164

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    This makes me think about the old chestnut that men don't gossip. What word do you use? I guess it's called gossip when women do it, so it sounds negative. I have watched many a man sit around spreading rumors and dissing someone with the best of them. Regarding the idea that women talk more than men, I think it's because we're taught to think with our emotions, whereas men aren't allowed to show emotion, so all they are "allowed" to talk about is sports and business. Yuk!

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    Name : Nicky, Gender : F, Religion : Pagan, Age : 46, City : Ft Worth, State : TX Country : United States, 
    in reply to: Why forget the past? #22417

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    Black people are not the only race that has been enslaved. The Romans had Caucasian slaves, and Chinese people were forced to work the railroads in the early days of 'White America'. Native Americans were treated worse than slaves. They were murdered for 'their' land. Irish people were treated badly when they arrived here. If I understand the stories, Black people were sold into slavery by their own people!!! There are still people living that were POWs during the Holocaust, whereas there are no former slaves living, so the Holocaust is fresher in the mind. Vietnamese people were treated badly when they came here during the 70s and 80s. I'm sick and tired of people trying to make me feel guilty for something I had no part in. And every ethnic group treats the women badly. As John and Yoko said, 'Women are the niggers of the world!'

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    Name : Nicky, Gender : F, Religion : Pagan, Age : 46, City : Ft Worth, State : TX Country : United States, 
    in reply to: Alcohol vs. smoking #39795

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    I too am appalled and disgusted with the way our society glamorizes drinking. You just can't meet the right woman/man, your life is not complete and you just don't fit in without some kind of booze. And people wonder why kids find someone to buy it for them. It doesn't help to keep raising the drinking age; they'll just find someone older. This is why college kids go wild when they get out on their own. Drinking is a sign of being "grown-up." I have taken care of too many people going through DTs and puking up blood because of their drinking. Where's the glamour then? I can't understand how someone can drink themselves into a stupor, puke all over themselves and others, do something stupid, wake up the next day feeling like s--t, and then say they had a good time. Do they even remember it? When someone drinks moderately in a restaurant, I don't have to suffer from their actions, whereas with cigarettes, I have to suffer with the stink, end up with a headache, and have my clothes and hair stink too. I too have been viewed as a deviant because I choose not to drink. Why are non-alcoholic drinks just as expensive as the alcoholic ones?

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    Name : Nicky, Gender : F, Religion : Pagan, Age : 46, City : Ft Worth, State : TX Country : United States, 
    in reply to: More to life than that. #43763

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    Put yourself in our place and then look at the media. People on TV and the movies are always playing tonsil hockey and jumping in and out of beds like it's a contest. Everywhere you go in public, there are straight couples groping each other, and commercials on TV tell you that if you wear the right kind of perfume and clothes, drink the right kind of beverage, etc., that you will be attractive to the opposite sex.

    You just don't see the obsession with straight sex because to you it's natural. But when you see and hear about gay people, it's not an everyday thing, so it stands out. If straight people didn't obsess about sex, then why do we women try to fight the idea that we're more than sex objects?

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    Name : Nicky, Gender : F, Religion : Pagan, Age : 46, City : Ft Worth, State : TX Country : United States, 
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