[James20897]

Why does it seem that older women are so much better at giving oral sex than younger women?

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[A.P.R.]

Maybe because they're more experienced? Or maybe they feel that to compete with younger women, they must perform exceptionally well in areas such as this one.

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[Jessica]

Experience.

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[Arc23768]

It might also be that we are more patient and less afraid. I suppose you could chalk that up to experience, but I had plenty of experience when I was younger, yet never felt that this might be something to do just for enjoyment (as opposed to leading to something else, trying to get/keep partner, etc.). I have also figured out that for most men (or at least the ones with whom I can discuss such things), oral sex is preferable to just about anything in the world. Knowing that makes it even more fun.

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[Tom24116]

Hmm.. my experience has shown that the younger generation seem to have less inhibitions and tend to be better at it!! Maybe it's a geographical thing!! lol

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[boris]

No doubt it is years of experience. Generally, the longer one is involved in an activity the better one gets. In addition, I believe as a woman ages she becomes more concerned with pleasing than with herself interests. Just a guess.

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[Darcy]

There are two reasons, I think. First, older women like sex so much more. Most younger women don't enjoy sex, so there's no way they would enjoy giving a bj. Secondly, it's a control thing. The older a woman gets, the more she becomes aware how much power sex gives her over a man.

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[GL Rockwell]

Most older women are more experienced sexually than younger women -- practice makes perfect. More important than this, though, is that I think a lot of older women (and by older I mean over 30, and definitely over 35) are past a lot of the socio-cultural hangups of younger women that might limit their sexual behavior. They've been married, they've had kids, they're not driven by a cinderella syndrome, a madonna complex, or any of the other rigid roles women are expected to live.

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[lmw]

i dont believe that older women are better. it's more of a matter of knowing what your partner likes. it may take a few tries, but eventually you'll get it exactly how he(or she) likes it. besides, i'm assuming that you wouldn't really know what an older womans bj is like until you are older....say maybe 30's or 40's. by then your memories of the younger generation may have become distored or faded. and why just make this one about women? how are older men when giving oral sex?

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[Karen]

Generally speaking, I guess 'experience' would make sense. I am an 'older' woman who enjoys pleasing my partner in this way, but until my current partner, I've had no desire to be so eager with any other sexual partner I've had in my younger years. For me, I think with maturity and a different perspective on life at my age, plus the needed (for me) emotional connection with my partner is what makes it so pleasurable for me. I would never think of engaging in this particular activity with someone I didn't care very much about. Regards, 52 Years in a Couple of Days.

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[typeoneg]

I rather prefer older women (post menapausal) as they seem to enjoy sex so much more in all ways.

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[MarkA]

1. experience. They know what men like and they know what they like to do. 2. They are prolly more relaxed and not as uptight about sex or giving head that the younger ones. 3. There's a joke about 'fat chicks'. They are better at sex because they try harder because they know they won't get it that often. Same could be said about older women. lol

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