[Daniel]

Does simply receiving oral sex from another boy for the first time mean I've lost my virginity?

User Detail :  

Name : Daniel, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 16, City : London, State : NA Country : United Kingdom, 

[Bert]

Most people don't consider virginity lost until you have had penetrative sexual intercourse, so... you are still a virgin, in my book, anyway.

User Detail :  

Name : Bert, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 31, City : London, State : NA Country : United Kingdom, 

[Lina22935]

Technically you're still a virgin. But for argument's sake, sex is sex. It takes many forms - manual, oral, penetration... Too many kids are engaging in oral sex because they don't consider it sex. There are very real dangers associated with oral sex. and it's not something to be taken lightly.

User Detail :  

Name : Lina22935, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 21, City : Chicago, State : IL Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, 

[Sue27748]

No, you have not lost your virginity, but you have lost your innocence. I'm sorry.

User Detail :  

Name : Sue27748, Gender : F, City : Woodland Hills, State : CA Country : United States, 

[Alex29049]

There's no official answer for this. The scene with Holden and Alyssa on the swingset in the movie "Chasing Amy" describes many people's different views. Some people would say you're a virgin until your penis has experienced full heterosexual vaginal penetration, while others would say homosexual anal penetration counts (my own opinion, but still just that, an opinion). Because of societal standards, many people consider complete female oral sex to count toward the loss of virginity, but not male oral sex.

User Detail :  

Name : Alex29049, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 20, City : Beloit, State : WI Country : United States, Occupation : Game Designer, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 

[Jessica]

Virginity is an outdated concept meant to keep religious men in power - and since you don't appear from your profile to be religious, my hope is you won't be offended by my opinion. Here's the deal - originally, 'virginity' referred to the intactness of a woman's hymen, the membrane that stretched across her vagina and kept many infectious diseases out. The hymen is broken by penetration. However, because our hygiene has evolved, hymens are unnecessary, and some women are actually born without them now. Others (since women are actually into athletics now) tear their hymen long before they have any sort of sexual contact. Religion altered the definition to refer to sexual purity, but teenagers have further attempted to alter that again to retain its original definition of penetration (hymen breaking). However, with the modern definition of sexual 'purity,' anybody who has felt anybody else up cannot claim true 'virginity.' The altered version is garbage, also, because the hymen is no longer necessarily an issue. Virginity, therefore, is now simply a brainwashing tool, subject to personal interpretation and generally a tool for making you feel guilty about sexual pleasure. Wrapping this up - you've had the first of one particular kind of sexual experience. You haven't experienced others. You use your own words to define you and you decide whether they're really that important.

User Detail :  

Name : Jessica, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 23, City : Huntsville, State : TX Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[rackula]

If you are thinking of the classic form of 'virginity', like a 16 year old straight, agnostic male from the U.K. thinks of it, then, NO. Losing virginity means having intercourse. Even Roman Catholics green flag oral sex.

User Detail :  

Name : rackula, City : Tecumseh, State : MI Country : Canada, 

[Bay]

Well sex is sex even if it is Oral, it's just another way to do it. Virginty is not being taken seriously and if you decide to have a form of sex even if it is with someone of the same sex, thats your deision. Just be careful and keep you and your partner protected, ESPECIALLY the same sex.

User Detail :  

Name : Bay, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Hispanic/Latino (may be any race), Age : 19, City : Milwaukee, State : WI Country : United States, Occupation : StarBucks manager, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper class, 

[Kim]

As far as i know oral sex is sex and although you weren't with a female or enter another person oral sex is sex. alot of females think tht they can have oral sex and it's ok. It is not ok at all.

User Detail :  

Name : Kim, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Presbyterian, Age : 37, City : Douglasville, State : GA Country : United States, Occupation : stay at home mom, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper class, 

[Bob23128]

That depends. Does it make you happy to think that you've lost your virginity? Then by all means give yourself credit! On the other hand, if it troubles you to think that you've lost it (because maybe this isn't the way you wanted to lose it), then chalk this up as something that doesn't count, and you can still look forward to losing it 'for real'.

User Detail :  

Name : Bob23128, City : Somerville, State : MA Country : United States, 

[Chris]

You can have sex without an orgasm, but if you had an orgasm, you had sex.

User Detail :  

Name : Chris, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 34, City : B, State : VA Country : United States, Occupation : Computer geek, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[Mar]

Hey there, Saw your add and well thought it would be nice to get in touch with you ;) Take care ciao Mar

User Detail :  

Name : Mar, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : Hispanic/Latino (may be any race), Religion : Christian, Age : 19, City : Peking, State : NA Country : China, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Upper class, 

[Jason]

Nope. You still have your cherry until you've taken in up the bum.

User Detail :  

Name : Jason, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 32, City : san francisco, State : CA Country : United States, Occupation : case manager, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[norbertneuman]

reply to sue: how does sex make you guilty? if that is true, then i guess that we should be ashamed that we survived as a species.

User Detail :  

Name : norbertneuman, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 17, City : mahtomedi, State : MN Country : United States, Social class : Upper middle class, 

[norbertneuman]

well, according to the roman catholic church, he is going to hell because he is gay. so, i wouldnt be worried about your virginity if the main proponents of the idea are the ones who hate you for what you are

User Detail :  

Name : norbertneuman, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 17, City : mahtomedi, State : MN Country : United States, Social class : Upper middle class, 

[Author]

Posts