[Scott J]

When women have a choice, why do they usually pick the guy who treats them bad (or worse) instead of the guy who they know loves them and would treat them the way they really want to be treated?

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Name : Scott J, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Baptist, Age : 32, City : Little Rock, State : AR Country : United States, Occupation : Electrician, Education level : Technical School, Social class : Middle class, 

[ShirleyAvery]

Even though it seems to make no sense, a lot of women (and men) come from homes where there were neglected, mistreated, criticized, ignored or abused verbally, sexually or physically. Consequently, they have low self-esteem and believe they don't deserve someone nice. Plus, they think that mean men are "normal" since that's what they grew up with. If they're smart enough to get counseling and start to like & respect themselves, they may develop more self esteem. However, most people - men and women - are superficial and guys (and women) with good looks can get away with murder sometimes. I've learned that prettiness in men or women lasts only thru the first few dates. If there's no personality, forget it! Just Curious

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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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