[Wayne24385]

Lets tackle the ethical dilemma first.. I’d say, in this case, not to tell him. You may have enough other problems to solve without adding his ‘punishing’ you for violating his trust. Just don’t do it again. Or if you do tell him, don’t tell him right now. Right now, work on the other issues. Do you have a right to feel upset that he had such intimacy before you met? Absolutely not. If he was still dating them, yes. But since those relationships (at least the sexual parts) are over, no. Do you need to do those things to make him happy? Very likely. He may not say so because he loves you and wants you to be happy, satisfied and to feel comfortable. But take it from a man: he will not really be satisfied sexually. This does not mean he will ‘stray.’ But it can cause it to cross his mind. A lot. I know, I’ve been there. And I didnt ‘stray,’ but it did cross my mind. A lot. You might want to consider counselling. Discover the roots of your inhibitions against oral sex and a little (not necessarily a lot of ) gameplay. I’m sure that if he wants to receive oral sex he has no inhibitions against giving it. Start slowly, so that you both feel comfortable about adding new dimensions to you intimate life. You might be pleasantly surprised.

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Name : Wayne24385, Gender : M, Race : Black/African American, Age : 43, City : Parsippany, State : NJ, Country : United States, Occupation : marketing, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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