[April]

I think Li is on the money: the ‘rape fantasy’ is not a fantasy about rape at all, but rather one based on internalized concepts of masculine and feminine sexual roles. Taking into consideration how one defines rape is important. Rape meaning sexual intercourse perpetrated against a person’s will implies that one has a complete and absolute will. Most of us can admit that the thoughts and feelings that lie behind our will are usually mixed ones. I can be excited by the idea of being powerless in a sexual experience, but my fear of and disgust about having this actually happen as rape are stronger and take precedence. Therefore, my will can be defined as against being raped. That doesn’t mean I can’t fantasize about being aggressively seduced. If a woman wants to be ‘seduced’ (in whatever way that is defined for her), then the rape fantasy is not one of rape, but of a forceful male ‘taking’ her – but in the context of her CHOICE and desire to be taken as a more passive and weaker female. Her will in this case is not violated.

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