White Men not Interested?

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    Gabriella
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    I am a Hispanic-American female who appreciates the company of men from different ethnic backgrounds. I do not look all Mexican, nor all white. Some people think I am even mixed because of my features: Full lips, very curly hair, and I guess even my outspoken attitude. I will date any ethnicity if I like the person and am genuinely interested in him. My question is, since I tend to attract black males more than any other ethnic group, do white men generally find the attributes I mentioned unattractive? Or do they simply get turned away by thinking someone will only date ‘black men’?
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    Name : Gabriella, Gender : F, Race : Hispanic/Latino (may be any race), Age : 23, City : Encinitas, State : CA, Country : United States, 
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    Yahmdallah24331
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    No, white men don’t find those attributes you mentioned unattractive. As a white guy, I find women from all races attractive. Most of my white buddies feel this way, too. What may be the problem is that currently there is a lot of anger directed at white people from various ‘minorities’ and, as you can see by reading some of the back-and-forth on this site, honestly feel that white people deserve this anger and shouldn’t be surprised when it’s expressed. What some white guys may be afraid of is your getting angry at them for even asking you out. Also, don’t forget that most guys are kind of daft about catching on to when a woman is interested in him. It may be a simple as that.

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    Name : Yahmdallah24331, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, City : Castle Rock, State : CO, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, 
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    Chris32163
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    Gabriella, I see where you’re coming from. I’m white and my girlfriend is biracial. She’s half Hispanic but has all of the Hispanic features. She’s very attractive, and almost every male I know wants her and is very jealous of me. They’re mostly jealous because they feel like they should have asked her out but didn’t. The only reason I’m with her is that I knew she liked me through her friends. Otherwise, just like everyone else, I was somewhat intimidated by her and wouldn’t think she would like a guy like me. Also, she attracts African-American guys like a magnet, and they’re not intimidated by her at all. So to answer your question, I believe that depending on the way you dress and act, white males will not approach you simply because of fear of rejection. But I can assure you that they want you, because most white males are very attracted to Mexican women!

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    Name : Chris32163, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 18, City : Seattle, State : WA, Country : United States, Social class : Upper middle class, 
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