[Autumn]

I have a question that I REALLY hope someone can help me with and I hope everyone understands this comes from the heart. I am dating a man who is black, that am am very much in love with. We have been discussing getting married. I really want this, but one thing holds me back, children. We both desparately want them, but to be honest, I am afraid. I hear so many interracial children who refer to themselves as black and seem to deny the cauacasian or be embarrassed over it. To me, as a mother, the idea of giving birth to my child, adoring that child and giving that child the best I can, then being rejected by my child, terrifies me. I have tried talking to my boyfriend about this, but he doesn't seem to understand, even though he tries. It seems to me, and maybe I'm wrong, that the white parent doesn't count or is less of a parent. The idea is breaking my heart and I really need some input. Thank you.

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Name : Autumn, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 24, City : T., State : CA Country : United States, Occupation : School bus driver, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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