October 21, 1999 at 12:00 am
#46579
Megan-L
Member
Not really. Some people give off signals, either by wearing certain clothes or haircuts, but it’s all still guesswork. Many ‘straight-looking, straight-acting’ people are gay but just don’t dress or act like it. If you’re interested in finding out whether someone identifies as gay, you might bring up ‘gay-ness’ in general to get a feel for their attitudes. Mention a movie or the local Pride march. Your bringing it up may help someone feel comfortable coming out to you.
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