September 15, 2004 at 12:00 am #46126
Bert
Member
Relax, get comfortable with your mate and get to know your own body and how it works. I’m happy to see that you’ve not blamed your mate! We are each responsible for our own fulfillment. With time and maybe a change in technique it will come (or you will!) MANY women have this condition and it often takes extra effort from their mates to get the music going. Good luck and remember, R-E-L-A-X! No alcohol! It dulls women’s sensitivity!!!