Reply To: Reply To: Why don’t teens cherish virginity?

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Dave26510
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I would say that teen’s don’t cherish their virginity becuase humans are sexual creatures. During our teenage years, we go through puberty which is your body maturing to the point of being sexually fit and capable. Biologically speaking you should be beginning to have sex at this point. I’m a male and not religious, but for me sex is simply amazing. I respect my girlfriend and try to provide her with an experience as exhilarating as mine. But neither of us were virgins when we met, and I think our mutual experience only helped to make the sex that much more enjoyable for both of us. We may stay together or not, but we both will always have the memories of our being together. And that’s not too shabby. I would suggest that instead of focusing on not having sex, you should focus on how to make losing your virginity something special for you. Plan a romantic night or weekend with your partner. Guys enjoy romance too. You have the power to make the experience as wonderful as it can be, and you should as you’ll always remember your first time. However, to deny yourself the pleasure of sex is rediculous; especially when contraceptives and protection are so available and easy to acquire. Granted these are not 100% effective, but they are about as close as scientifically possible. With little fear of becoming pregnant, you allow yourself greater control over your sexual experiences and can better plan when or if you do want a child. If you’re abstaining for religious reasons, then understand that differences of faith are why you’re having difficulty seeing eye to eye with others on this issue. It may be a matter of religion for you, but for most sex is an enjoyable act. One that in order to engage in, you have to have a first time.

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Name : Dave26510, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 21, City : Göttingen, State : NA, Country : Germany, Occupation : Student, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,