Reply To: How do I know if I’m gay?

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Jean
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It’s been a while since I was 15, but I remember how you’re feeling right now. You’re going through so many changes at this age that it’s hard to be sure about anything – and being on the fence about your sexual orientation is really scary. The best thing I can tell you is not to worry about it right now. I know that’s easier for me to say than for you to do. But you’ll probably have a miliion different feelings for people of both sexes before you’re clear on whether you’re gay or straight. You’re all full of hormones and stuff, so at any given moment, anyone could seem hot to you. Sexy is sexy, regardless of gender, and a person who is hot can just plain stir up feelings. Just pay attention to how different people make you feel and don’t try to suppress or deny your feelings. Just be honest with yourself about how you feel and don’t get freaked out if one day you’re checking out the wrestling team and the next day you’re checking out the cheerleaders. It’s natural. And don’t listen to anyone who tells you to have sex with boys and girls to see which you like best. Experimenting with different people to pick a favorite will just make you more confused. If you’re going to be with someone, wait until it’s someone you care about and who cares about you. Then it won’t matter if it’s a boy or a girl because it won’t just be about the sex. And don’t try to categorize yourself yet. You’re young and it will all work itself out the way it’s supposed to. One day you’ll just know because it will just feel right.

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Name : Jean, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Lesbian, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 38, City : Orange County, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Computers, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,