Jean
Whatever it means, whatever you may or may not be, the most important thing is not to worry about it. People have all kinds of fantasies and are turned on by things that they wouldn’t necessarily try. For example, I’m a lesbian and enjoy watching gay male porno. I have no idea what kind of category that puts me in, but I know I don’t actually want to do what I see in those movies. I just like to watch it. As far as something being bisexuality when it’s never even happened, consider that heterosexuals know that they’re straight long before they ever have sex. People like to argue that gay people who’ve never had straight sex can’t really know that they’re gay because they haven’t had a straight experience. Yet, no one expects heterosexuals to go out and have gay sex to make sure that they’re straight. So, yes, I think you can be bisexual without the actual experience. If the opportunity presents itself, you might want to try it with a woman. The worst that could happen is that you’d find you didn’t like it. It’s possible that you could be physically, but not emotionally, attracted to women. That wouldn’t be the wierdest thing in the world. I bet you’d find quite a few women who’d agree that that describes their husband to a tee!
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