[Olivia P.]

A lot of times, if you have been experimenting sexually (with petting and oral sex), first-time intercourse is not necessarily as painful as everyone says it will be. Lubrication definitely helps, as does making sure you are aroused before you attempt penetration – foreplay is VERY IMPORTANT; not just the first time, but every time. Some people have great first times, others not so much. Definitely make sure that you have plenty of time, in a comfortable place, where you won’t be disturbed by other people (friends, parents, etc.) And be sure to have protection too – its important to use birth control even for your first time. I have heard some women say that they suggest woman-on-top as a good position for your first time – my best friend did this when she lost hers and she said it was helpful because she was able to control the angle and depth of penetration. Hope this helps, and remember – if it hurts too much at first, its okay to stop. Better to take it slow, one day at a time, than to rush things and hurt yourself.

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Name : Olivia P., Gender : F, Disability : PTSD/anxiety disorder, Race : Caucasian/American Indian/Roma, Religion : Jewish/earth-based/American Indian tribal beliefs, Age : 22, City : Oakland, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : barista, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower class,