Stephanie
I was a promiscuous teenager – always using sex as a way to get/keep a boyfriend, be popular, etc – as were most of the other girls I knew. (Though I can’t deny, my numbers are higher than a lot of my girl friends’). I’ve been married to the love of my life for 5-1/2 years after dating for 6 years before that. I wish so much that I had saved myself for him. I can love him forever, I can bear him a child, but I so long to have given him THAT gift. I will say that he and I certainly didn’t abstain when we were dating – so I knew we were sexually compatible. However, what I thought was great sex 10 years ago was NOTHING compared to the stuff we have now – with passion and love and deep knowledge of one another, trust beyond suspicion, acceptance of our physical imperfections… things that come with time in a relationship – as well as age (that 30th year is a doozy!) I believe that both our mental and physical relationships would have come to this great state even if we had waited until marriage.
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