May 21, 2007 at 12:00 am #33255
James W.
Member
First of all, there are plenty of men out there for you. As a well educated, very attractive woman in your 20’s, the only thing holding you back is fear, not other people. Secondly, you should seek medical advice. You might benefit from anti-anxiety medication, an antidepressant or a beta blocker. Beta blockers are useful for some types of tremor and also for ‘performance anxiety’ or ‘stage fright.’ Last of all, look for men in classes, at work, in church, in structured activities on weekends and ask your friends to introduce you to men. I don’t recommend bars.