Rachel28699
That is the most ridiculous excuse I have ever heard. Isn’t one who has sex (any kind, ie: oral, anal, giving or receiving,) with the same gender considered homosexual? Or bisexual at the very least? A few years back the New York Times Magazine ran a feature about black men (though I am sure black men are NOT the only ones) who are on the ‘DL’, going out there, having sex with other men and then returning to their heterosexual lives. What a load of crap! There’s no shame in being gay but the stigma attached has some people ashamed of who and what they really are! The saddest thing that this article made clear was that some of these men are either in committed heterosexual relationships or are married men with children! Some of these men admitted to not having themselves tested for HIV/AIDS and then going home and having sex with their wives and/or girlfriends. I once knew a guy on the down low. He had a beautiful wife and a gorgeous 3 year old son. All three are dead now. Dead from AIDS-related illnesses. FreedaBee, if you know any brothers on the DL, you need to school them on how destructive and deadly this behavior is!