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Marc, You misunderstand my meaning. Of course, if we’re talking about your girlfriend or wife, you may become sexually aroused at the sight of her naked body. There’s a difference; you are sexually attracted her on many levels, and know what her body does for you personally. But the mere sight of any naked woman at a nude beach is most definitely a sign of sexual immaturity, or that of being ‘oversexed,’ which to me, is pretty much the same thing. Women see nude men and do not become aroused physically at the mere sight. Our minds may wander a bit if the visual is appealing, but for a woman, a lot of other things come into play before becoming physically aroused. For instance, being alone with a man she is physically, psychologically, and even emotionally attracted to. Just seeing a nude man on a beach (or on tv, or a magazine) will not get the juices flowing alone; unless of course, she is alone, and is using a magazine or video as a tool for her own self-satisfying sexual desires. As I stated before, a man who is sexually mature and balanced, will not become aroused by viewing a nude woman. He should be able to look at that, and not think twice about it, other than perhaps making note of her physical beauty (or lack thereof), or noting how ‘ballsy’ she is for having the nerve to be nude in front of so many people. If a man takes a magazine with nudes in it to the bathroom or bedroom, then obviously, he is seeking sexual release, and then it will be used for fantasy purposes, but merely seeing a naked woman should not be enough to incite sexual arousal in a sexually well-balanced man. If you are to argue that point, then you just add to the fire that men are ‘dogs’ with no self-control, and should be excused for bad behavior towards women.