June 12, 2009 at 12:00 am #21605
Mara
Participant
Women tend to equate love with sex. (After all, only sluts have sex with men they don’t love!) So our magazines tend to cater to that belief. To most men, sex is just sex and at a remove from emotional attachment. That doesn’t mean they don’t want a loving relationship, just that they compartmentalize better than most women do. My mother always said that men use love to get sex and women use sex to get love.