November 22, 2004 at 12:00 am #19282
Ayanna
Participant
Nancy, I wish I had the ‘correct’ answer for this question. I have been told the same thing too many times to count. What I’m finding is that the men saying it are either not ready to be in a relationship, or just don’t want to be in a relationship with me. It’s really just that simple. This seems to be a politically correct thing for men to say, so that women don’t feel that something is ‘wrong’ with them. This is the best answer I can give on that behalf. I can say that when the ‘right’ man comes along, he won’t have to say anything to that effect. He’ll just act accordingly.